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My Experience with AllstarAllie 10 Years of Stalking Me & Didn't Learn a Thing

Heather Riley's Career-long Bully: AllstarAllie @Thebedr00mbully - Disappointed but Not Surprised, Same Bullshit Different Day

Due to the ongoing nature of this situation with Allie,  I want to provide a timeline of event to set the record straight. I'm not going through anything personally, I'm absolutely fantastic! I try to make it clear in my content, I'm still the playful, hilarious, sexy, sassy, burst of energy and sunshine I've always been. There's no changing who I am. "Who I am depends on me, my attitude depends on you." I'm as charming, charismatic, and cool as hell. That doesn't change the fact that I am currently experiencing targeted peer violence. If I could do anything to put a stop it, I would. But this entire thing has nothing to do with me in the first place. I was more than happy to live my life peacefully, quietly under the radar but Allie was never going to allow that to happen. She pulled me back into the spotlight to make herself relevant. Allie always benefits from my popularity but I do not benefit from associating with her. She's been chasing me for a little bit of attention from me for 10 years, now she has it. She is delusional, unhinged, deranged - damnit, she dosn't care who knows! Known associates can go straight to the trash. We are NOT THE SAME. Not even close.

Sex Work is only Dangerous because of how You Treat Sex Workers

This is my personal experience being targeted by AllstarAllie last 10+ years - today.

Keyboard Warrior. Cantankerous Karen. Unhappy Hatin Hoe.

What was the point of all this?

Let's shine light on her actions in the dark.

"People who talk badly about you

don't want others to see how wonderful you are."

I know how wonderful I am.

Here's the chronological rundown of the facts.

Welcome to my life with Allie!

(I can't get rid of her. I tried.)

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Timeline of Events

before 2016

backpage girl

I entered the sex work industry prior to 2016. Small town backpage girl just trying to get by, no expectation of anything more or less - certainly not an iconic career! That was a beautiful plot-twist.

2017 - 2018

I officially had a come-up from Backpage to the top of the industry, I'm the last Cinderella Story from the Board-era. I am the First Sex Work Twitter Influencer. (I'm an historical sex worker!) Allie is introduced to Heather Riley: bullying starts immediately when clients told me we'd be "friends." In response, Allie convinces the established local Chicago girls (I was so excited to be friends with) to be mean to me and exclude me from being involved with them. I wanted friendship but focused on clients instead, perfecting my craft with experience. I had no plans, I just let life happen to me one day at a time, one suitor at a time, one date at a time.The magic happened to me naturally, effortlessly.

June 2018

As I grew as an independent FSSW brand and as an individual, I only toured as an escort for about a year before being claimed personally by the clients and men of Chicago. I relocated from Kansas City to Chicago permanently June 2018, available full-time year-round in Chicagoland or travel anywhere via FMTY requests. As soon as I announced relocating to Chicago that March, Allie offered discounts to Chicago clients in exchange for giving me fake bookings and not showing up = she wanted me to feel like I was going to "make it in Chicago," only to make me feel like I failed. 

I thirved. I continued to level up. I took every opportunity presented to me. I never stopped working hard. Chicago and the World became my playground. 

Deplatformed from Twitter in 2019 at 15K followers.

Heather Riley became a UTR Luxury Unicorn Companion in Chicago. I was so happy for many years! Elite Status

January 2024

Allie, a couple of her SWer peers, and a Chicago-area client silently spread an ongoing smear campaign against Heather Riley for 8+ months to lay down the foundation for an unconscionable, coordinated, and outrageous social media attack. Rumors spread like wildfire. It was devastating, but as always, Heather endured as the truth always comes out

 

It would be a very long time until I was able to piece together everything Allie did to hurt me. She went as far to use threats and intimidation tactics against private members of my personal family. And I still I rise.

November 2024

In November 2024, Allie launched two threads attacking every aspect of Heather RIley's character, business, and decade-long reputation in front of the entire sex worker community. 

Allie's unrelentless 10-years of online targeted harassment, cyber-bullying, and obsessive-stalking caused a chain-reaction of meangirl bullying behavior & digital exclusion from within the sex work industry across every app, forum, platform, website, etc across the internet - a psychological case study in

the Banality of Evil.

December 2024

After the Silence - a well-known Provider steps forward to tell me everything, tweets in my defense, calls Allie out on her 10+ year reputation for "being literally insane" towards other sex workers, mocks client for rewriting history, and exposes Allie's psychotic violence mid-tweet. Allie has been targeting me for a decade but I'm not the only victim of Allie - I'm the only one not afraid of her.  The provider also identified the client involved in Allie's scheme. I found out about other the SWer's involved one-at-a-time in the aftermath

October 2025

AllstarAllie @TheBedr00mbully

and Friends

Still Bullying Heather

Heather Riley finally rejoins Twitter/X after Allie makes another Tweet making fun of her in front of her Chicago community industry peers, clients, and we share many of the same fans from across the world. She's exploitative.

Allie Tweet Announced that I, Heather Riley, am "Cocaine Riley" & that I "pop a lot of pills." The tweet making fun of me got more likes than I have followers. Another provider, Lexi, joins in the cyber-bullying post,  making fun of my mental health with screenshots of me talking about it generally. My former friend of 7-years Sofia Sweet joined in the public cruelty. This is after Sofia used Allie's bullying to influence new girls like Destiny to be mean and exclude me, using her peer influence to isolate, gaslight, & prevent anyone from wanting to get to know me.​

 

This is what Allie wants.

HONEY Quality over Quantity I'm not for everyone!

As of Today

"Never listen to someone if you wouldn't want their llife." Allie's life is awful, she didn't do anything with the last 20 years, and she spent her career super-focused on watching me live mine (while I forgot she existed.)

 

I'm sorry for all the pain, hurt, and confusion Allie's caused a lot of people in the community.

I used my popularity, fame. and celebrity status to pull up as many sex workers as possible, no questions asked. The more support I gave, the more I received in return.

 

But in my social media absence, the best of the online community was manipulated, pressured, and encouraged into the ugliest versions of themselves by the very worst person in the industry. I brought out the best in everyone and continue to - that's my power. I even bring out the best in Allie, 10 years is dedication! That's not hate, not jealousy, not envy - that's love.

Turns out, AllstarAllie the @TheBedr00mBully is just another fan girl of the Incredible Heather Riley Chicgo GFE. Copying, studying, following my every move - from my photos to where I live. That's NEXT LEVEL fandom...

I'll update the timeline when she does more weird shit.

​(SHE ALWAYS DOES)

Check Back Here for More Stories & New Updates!
The Devil is in the Details, Not the Timeline.

 

Forever Yours, Heather Riley

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